a sexual encounter between an adult and a child--no matter how short, no matter how tender, loving, and non-painful--automatically and predictably must be psychologically traumatic to the child. (Gardner, 1992, pp. 670-1)

Of relevance here is the belief by many of these therapists that a sexual encounter between an adult and a child--no matter how short, no matter how tender, loving, and non-painful--automatically and predictably must be psychologically traumatic to the child. (Gardner, 1992, pp. 670-1)
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